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Friday, May 22, 2015

Upper West Side Story By Susan Pashman book spotlight and giveaway





Book Details:

Book Title: Upper West Side Story by Susan Pashman
Category:  Adult fiction,  264 pages
Genre: Literary fiction
Publisher: Harvard Square Editions
Release date: May 2015
Available for review in: print and ebook, mobi (for Kindle), PDF
Will send print books:  International
Tour dates: May 20 to June 10
Content Rating: PG
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Book Description:

Meet Bettina Grosjean, a professor of Women’s History, and her husband, a high-ranking environmental policymaker in the New York City mayor’s office. Once a pair of student radicals, they are now raising their two brainy children on New York’s Upper West Side.

Here is the tale of their fierce parental love as it is tested in a startling eruption of racial hostility and political chicanery within the very community they have long loved and helped to build. Despite the deep love and affection they have for each other, their domestic life is suddenly thrown into crisis by a shocking and tragic event: During a school field trip, their son Max and his best friend, Cyrus, are horsing around when, in a freak accident, Cyrus falls down a flight of stairs, and dies a few days later.

The fact that Cyrus is black, that his mother is Bettina’s closest friend–that jealousy, suspicion and resentment have long been simmering in the community, and that there are powerful political forces at work as well–all conspire to reveal an ugly underbelly of the community the Grosjeans have worked so hard to fashion into a model of an enlightened, multiracial world.

Upper West Side Story is also the story of a remarkable multi-racial friendship, of two women united by their ideals and their devotion to their children, then divided by events that spiral out of control.


Meet the author: 

Susan Pashman is a philosophy professor and former attorney. While in law school, she served a year in the New York City Council President’s office; some of what she learned there has found its way into this story. But most of this book derives from her experience of raising two boys on her own in Brooklyn. Many of her sons’ childhood exploits, and the hopes and fears she had for them, became the heart of this novel.
She now resides in Sag Harbor, New York, with her husband, Jack Weinstein.
Connect with Susan: Website ~  Facebook Twitter    Goodreads


An Interview With Susan Pashman, Author of Upper West Side Story


Q. Why did you write this book?

A. I had two conversations with parents; both of them very earnestly concerned with raising their children to be race blind. One was my own brother who had a son in junior high school. He told me that he was so excited because four black children were going to be entering his son’s all-white class. It was a special program to introduce the white kids to black children so they could get a firsthand idea of black children; it would, I my brother’s words, “expose” his son to other kinds of kids.

I went home from that conversation enraged at the idea that the black children were being used, as I saw it, to educate my brother’s son. I had asked him how he and his son would feel if his son was “used” in the same way to educate black children. I thought kids were being used as objects in these experiments to give their parents a sense of moral superiority that I found obnoxious.

So that night, I found myself wondering how many things could go wrong in the scenarios my brother—and this other friend of mine—were setting up with their kids. Immediately, I envisioned what is the inciting incident in this book. One of the children getting severely injured and how the parents, both black and white, would react.


Q. When you write, do your characters come to you fully formed or do they unfold and develop along with the story?

A. Characters always develop lives of their own as you put them in one situation after another. For me, though, it is important to start with an idea and the easiest way to do that is to model each of my characters, even the very minor ones on people I know. This is not always the nicest thing to do to friends. But in this book, the characters who are based on friends are very nice people in the book so I don’t have a worry about that.

So I start out with people I can visualize, and I have some idea how they sound when they speak. After a while, the characters take on their own lives as I get to know them and move them through the book’s plot.


Q. One of the main characters in your book is a black woman. In fact, several of your main characters are black. As a white writer, did you find writing these characters a particular challenge?

A. The challenge was not to rely on stereotypes. The black people in my book are both young teenagers and their parents. I raised my own children in Brooklyn where they attended integrated schools and I had personal experiences with both kids and parents who are black, so it was not very difficult to do this.

What I always rely on my imagination for is the inner person, the feelings my characters have. Everyone’s emotions run pretty much the same way. So I just imagine myself in the place of the person I’m writing and I know the way that person will feel. For Viola, the black mother who is central to the plot, I was not imagining any particular person I ever knew, but I was sure of how she must feel in each of the circumstances the plot placed her in.


Q. Do you think unconscious racism is as big an issue now as when you began writing?

A. Well, this is the place to mention that this book was written and revised many times over a period of fourteen years. Unconscious racism was not even a phrase when I began writing this. We all knew that we harbored a certain bias against others; what we didn’t know or what we denied, was what many studies reveal now, that we all have preferences that influence our actions and that we tend to trust people who most resemble ourselves more than we trust others who do not. What the police shootings all over our nation now have shown us is that the people we most respect often harbor the worst racist bias, and that when people who have been taught to BEHAVE properly are under duress, their deeper feelings are revealed in their actions.


Where to buy the book:

Giveaway:​

Prizes: ​ 
 Win one of 15 copies of Upper West Side Story (Print for USA & Canada - ebook for international) One winner will also get a $25 Amazon Gift Card
Ends June 18


Wednesday, May 20, 2015

RFID Blocking Sleeves Review


I received the RFID blocking sleeves in exchange for my honest review.

I cannot say that they really do work, because well I have nothing to test them with. I can say that the guys in my family loved the car designs. You get 6 different sleeves, all with a different car on them, They have a 3-Layer Construction Offers Aluminum Interior, Copper Middle Layer and Glossy Outer Shell. They fit into your wallet with no problem. They do have top loading and side loading sleeves. They also have a lifetime guarantee on them. 


Regenepure Biotin Conditioner Review



I received this product in exchange for my honest review.
Regenepure's intense volumizing biotin conditioner is suitable for all hair types, it adds volume, bounce and thickness. It repairs damaged hair. It is free of harmful chemicals paraben and SLS. 
  I personally didn't care for it, I hate to say. It made my head and face burn, and I guess because my hair is already really thick, the added volume wasn't flattering.
  My daughter on the other hand likes it. She says I put to much on is why it burnt my head and face. It does make her hair very soft. 
  I am giving it 4 stars because even though it wasn't for me, my daughter likes it, I do like that it is free of harmful chemicals, paraben, and SLS

Infernal Innovations Magnetic car mount Review



I received the Infernal Innovations Magnetic car mount in exchange for my honest review. 
I really like this mount. It takes about 2 seconds to install. It comes with 2 magnets a rectangle one and a round one. They do have adhesive strips on them for a permanent mount, but I like to change phones, I like to change cases, and I like different devices, so I just slipped the magnet in between my phone and my case and it worked just as good as if I would of stuck it to my phone. This is a small base so it does not hog up your whole  dash. It has a very sticky bottom suction cup and can go on your dash or winder. There is a locking lever on the base. Make sure to use this both when putting it on or it won't stick, and taking it off or you may rip your dash up, this thing really sticks. As a FREE BONUS, they've included a stylish 75mm adhesive disk (5.99$ value) in case you have a particularly troublesome dash. They even stand by their product and offer a risk-free 5 year warranty and a better than money-back 60 day guarantee. I think its a great gadget, small. sturdy, and non obtrusive. 



Ramkon Magnetic Car Air Vent Phone Mount Review



I received the Ramkon Magnetic car mount in exchange for my honest review. I really like this mount. It pushes onto my air vent, take bout 2 seconds to install. It comes with 2 magnets a rectangle one and a round one. They do have adhesive strips on them for a permanent mount, but I like to change phones, I like to change cases, and I like different devices, so I just slipped the magnet in between my phone and my case and it worked just as good as if I would of stuck it to my phone. This is a small base so it does not hog up your whole air vent. I think its a great gadget, small. sturdy, and non obtrusive.

Adovia Dead Sea Mud Facial Mask


When I received this mud mask I ran to the bathroom, washed and dried my face put the mud mask on, walked out of the bathroom and was face to face with my husband who almost fell down the steps laughing.
This mud mask is premixed, so you don't have to mess with mixing. Put a liberal amount on your face, wait about 10 minutes for it to dry, wash it off either with water or by using a wet cloth. My skin looked and felt so much better after just 1 use.  It does not smell bad like some other mud masks either. This is super smooth mud also, I want to say it is about the consistency of toothpaste.
I have now used it a 2nd time, and will continue to use this once a week as directed on the package.
Using this product once a week the tube should last 6 months to a year.  You can't beat the price, for about what it would cost for 1 treatment at a spa you can have 6 to 12 treatments in the comfort of your own home.
Adovia is 100% cruelty free also. 
They do offer a 1 year 100%  unconditional, no questions asked money back guarantee also.



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FSL Decimate Ear Protection Review




 I received the FSL Decimate Ear Protection Headphones in exchange for my honest review.
  As you can see in my pictures they do fold up to help protect the inside of the earphone and make them cmpact. They are very lightweight. And when you have them on you hear NOTHING. The company says these safety earmuffs boast a Noise Reduction Rating of 34dB.  They fit very snug, but not to tight to cause discomfort. They very comfortable. The padding on the ear cup is very soft. It is made of a vinyl. They do have a 3 year warranty.
 These would work great if you were at a car race, monster truck show, and even at the gun range. 
  I think every Mom should own a pair LOL